Campfire
I sometimes receive a text from a friend and all it says is; “I need a campfire” a phrase that means a lot more than its four words. It’s code for; get me off if only for a while, this high-speed elevator with its constant questions, problems, and noise, it’s never-ending buzz and hundred-mile-an-hour pace, its brain pulverizing, stress inducing roller coaster. Slow me down so I can think. Slow me down so I can reflect. Slow me down so I can relax. Slow me down so I can find the wisdom in my life that’s been drowned out by everything else. Help! I need to clear the mechanism. And a campfire has the power to do that!
Fire symbolizes the essence of our human existence, it is mystical and magic, it is an incubator of life and the curator of our spiritual soul. Fire is a transformational event both physically through the flame and mystically through our minds. It’s a symbol of wisdom, of purity and spiritual energy, and it holds the power to transfix us. It’s hypnotic and magic, and part of its allure is the realization, that it can take us to another place; a place of reflection, a place that has the ability to deafen the background noise and rejuvenate the soul. The most oft used phrase spoken when people are staring into a campfire is; “Do you remember when…”
The place that fire brings me to, allows me as a participant, to visit and revisit past experiences. It reignites emotions in me and transports me to places I’ve long forgotten or only remembered in objective terms. It plays with my senses and sparks long forgotten memories. If you stare into a campfire long enough, its hypnotic power sometimes allows you to reach an alternate level of human consciousness a dream state that taps into memory, sometimes allowing us to understand our personal history by sensitizing us to long hidden thoughts and dreams. It often opens all of this up to me and bathes me in the reality of all that is, all that was, and all that will ever be.
A campfire burns in a circle without sides, without a front of a back, and is a release of physical and spiritual energy that dances in the night sky sometimes taking us along for the ride. Fire is one of the four elements of life; earth, wind, and water being the others. A fire’s transformative power can place me back in my grandfather’s yard watching carp swimming in his backyard fishpond. I’m transported back into my grandfather’s presence; I can see him, feel him, and smell him, as he tells me how to feed the fish. I can be thirteen again and riding my bike on that hot summer day when I wiped out at the end of the street, skinning my arms, legs and face. The memory is so vivid I wince as though this long-ago event just happened. I can return to the scene of previous adventures and have sometimes accidently called a new friend, by an old friend’s name because memories have been rekindled, past experiences reignited. My father, my long-lost friends and family, all roll back into reality and are present as a vision in that moment. I feel the magic of past campfires; flames dancing, wisps of smoke rolling skyward as the air feeds the flames. I feel as though I am not alone in my dreams, but others are close by.
Secrets are shared around a campfire because those who’ve experienced the magic understand it’s okay to verbalize things, things we might never tell anyone, any other time. The trance of the glowing flame is powerful medicine.